Here's a story of a girl,
Living in the lonely world,
A hidden note, A secret crush,
A little boy who talks too much.
Well, I'm standing in the crowd,
And when you smile I check you out,
But you don't even know my name,
You're too busy playing games,
And I want you too know,
If you lose your way,
I won't let you go.
If I cut my hair,
If I change my clothes,
Will you notice me?
If I bite my lip,
If I say hello,
Will you notice me?
♥♥♥
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
whose the actual winner?
this recent thing, got me thinking again.
thank god for that, for a moment, my brain seem to be slowly wasting away. atrophying. releasing methane as it decomposed.
In an argument, who actually wins?
lets set the scene.
B did something mean to A
A brought it up to C
C was mad at B
C punished B
B is now mad at A and C
C is now frustrated because A and B cant live in peace
A should be happy cause justice has been granted
(complicated? it's really just some small matter)
somehow, there seem to be no happiness in winning.
before there was only one party [A] being gloomy,
but by seeking justice, it ended up with three parties unhappy [A,B,C].
Eventho the incident was a small one, was the end result worth it?
Should A just bear all the unhappiness of B's meanness to avoid creating more unhappiness amongst the 3 parties then? But doesn't bearing the meanness of B for "overall happiness" seem a little bit unfair towards A? Does it involve selfishness in seeking justice for oneself and so sacrificing overall happiness? Or is keeping quiet about the injustice done to preserve "overall happiness" the correct way of going about? Does the "size of unfairness" affect the outcome? Like VERY unfair, so you should tell; or it's just a small matter so just bear with it and it'll be okay. Does it work like that?
I still haven't gotten a conclusion,
might or might not keep thinking about it.
I understand myself (I think),
but I doubt anyone else reading will understand.
So till then ( :
Merry X'mas Again
(I was reading a story about Christmas, so I just felt like wishing it again eventho its long overdue)
♥ Jo 10:43 PM